Week 6 - Love: The Spirit's Lifestyle
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Love: The Spirit's Lifestyle
1 Corinthians 13
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
I. Observation: The "Noise" vs. The "Nature" (10 Minutes)
The Hyperbole (vv. 1–3): Paul lists the most "impressive" spiritual gifts (tongues of angels, prophetic insight, mountain-moving faith).
What happens to these gifts if they lack the "singular fruit" of love?
The Inventory (vv. 4–7): Look closely at the descriptions of love.
How many of these overlap with the "Fruit of the Spirit" in Galatians 5 (patience, kindness, etc.)?
The Shelf-Life (v. 8): Compare the verbs used for gifts ("fail," "cease," "vanish") with the verb used for love ("never fails").
What does this tell us about God’s long-term priorities?
II. Interpretation: The Supremacy of Love (15 Minutes)
Commentary: The "More Excellent Way"
Scholars note that Chapter 13 is the "connective tissue" between Chapters 12 and 14—both of which deal with the exercise of spiritual gifts. Paul isn't saying gifts are bad; he's saying gifts without the "singular fruit" are operationally useless.
The Measurement of a Person: Consider this perspective from theologian Thomas R. Schreiner:
"Indeed, a person is not measured by his or her gifts but by love, and without love a person is nothing. All the person’s accomplishments and gifts will be forgotten and are quite beside the point."
If our accomplishments and "giftedness" are ultimately "beside the point," why do we spend so much energy cultivating our skills and so little energy cultivating our character?
Participating in the Divine: Michael Gorman offers this insight on the "nature" of these verses:
"They are not accidental; love is what God is and does what God does. God is by nature patient and kind... To practice the sort of love we see in these verses means, therefore, becoming more Spirit-filled, Christlike, and Godlike. The process may be called sanctification... It is to participate in the life of God now in anticipation of the eternality this life of love foreshadows..."
Gorman suggests that being patient and kind is actually "participating in the life of God." How does it change your view of a "boring" task (like being patient with a difficult person) if you see it as "participating in the life of God"?
The Mirror and the Face: (v. 12) We currently see through a "glass darkly."
How does the "singular fruit" of love act as a preview of the "face to face" reality we will experience in eternity?
III. Application: Cultivating the Eternal (15 Minutes)
The Definition Replacement: Try replacing the word "Love" in verses 4–7 with your own name (e.g., "[Name] is patient, [Name] is kind...").
Which phrase feels the most convicting or "untrue" right now?
The Service Test: In our modern church culture, do we tend to value "giftedness" (talent, charisma, success) over "fruitfulness" (character, humility, love)?
The "Anticipation" Step: If love is a "foreshadowing" of eternity:
What is one relationship in your life that needs a "preview of heaven" this week?
How can you practice "forgiveness, justice, or truth" (Gorman) in that space?
Notes:
The "Gorman" Connection: Use the Gorman quote to show that the Fruit of the Spirit isn't just "being a nice person." It is Sanctification—the process of the Spirit making us look like Jesus.
Gifts vs. Fruit: Remind the group: Gifts are what you do, but Fruit is who you are. In heaven, we won't need the gift of healing (no one will be sick) or prophecy (we will see God clearly), but we will still need Love, because that is what God is.
Australian Context: In our "no-nonsense" culture, we often value "getting the job done" (Gifts). Emphasise that for God, how we do the job (Love) is more important than the job itself.